Does TUFF have a dress code?

Our dress code policies are simple. Wear your best fetish gear - leather, latex, harness, jock, sports gear fetish (football uniform gear, wrestling singlet or briefs, etc.), cowboy/ western, uniform, military, greaser, biker, muscle/body builder, cigar, boots and so on. Tuff is a place to feel comfortable standing out. We ask that you participate and add to the room, this is no spectator sport. Or simply check your clothes at the free coat check.

We discourage you to come in…Bright clothes, Obnoxious looking sneakers, Raver wear (LED Harness or black light reflective gear) , Sandals or Crocs

Where can I find gear to wear at tuff ?

We have compiled a list for suppliers and designers HERE

If you’re a designer, brand or supplier and want to be added, please email us at Tuffparty@gmail.com

Is there a coatcheck at TUFF?

Yes, and its free. Take advantage of it. Be bold

Is there a darkroom or play area at TUFF?

We do not have dark rooms, play areas or other amenities you’d find at a sex party.

We encourage you to have fun and be conscientious of the space you’re in.

What kind of music do you play?

Our party features a diverse selection of music, ranging from tech and tech-house to nu-disco, classic disco, electro, and elements of darkwave and industrial. We aspire to bring a unique atmosphere that one might expect in London or Berlin but hope to establish it as something uniquely ours out here.

Is tuff only in LOs Angeles ?

We do our party in Los Angeles once a month but we do many other cities in the US. Please check our events calendar and sign up for email list to stay informed.

Does TUFF have a REFUND policy ?

Tickets sales are final and we do not issue refunds; however, you have the option to transfer them to a friend.

Alternatively, if you contact us before the event ( Tuffparty@gmail.com ), we will honor the ticket for the following occurrence. Ticket will be reissued and sent to you for updated event. Please note that this is a one-time transfer; if the transferred ticket is not redeemed, we cannot accommodate another transfer.